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Alex do make a good point off it . If I really want something I offer people money and ask them if they like it or I have to come with an better offer if I like it , and I really want it. And to Maurice always nice to see you beside the food I will take you to the special museum next time that is the place where I did get my interest 36 years ago in collecting Indonesian stuff . I like to hang around with an true collector like you . ![]() ![]() ![]() Ben |
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I agree with Ben, Maurice, TVV and few others - we should respect each other's selling preferences - sellers and buyers alike (and each other as well:-) - well done guys:-) No one should dictate or force no one to sell or trade according to anyone's preferences. I am not taking any sides, I am just promoting respect and equality for all members. Asking for offer is no harm in my view - forcing a seller to publicly name the price knowing that the seller prefers not to is impolite. If someone does not wish to participate in a silent auction - simply do not - no one forces you, but do not force the other side either:-)
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You say you are not taking any sides ![]() ![]() The way i view it, so called selling preferences, in places not dedicated to business (read speculation) should only be the ethical ones ![]() I rather take it that, impolite is to put something for sale in a friendly forum without a price and still refuse to give it after your fellow members request ![]() Silent (or any type of) auctions are perhaps out of context in a members only forum; this is probably a more pertinent reason for the respect issue ... at least for some. What you probably mean by forcing is, in the worst, a figure of speech; i feel restrained from further coments on this one ![]() Sorry Alex, don't take it wrong; i am only defending my dame. I am no business guru and i have never registered on eBay. I feel defenceless before certain exercises ![]() Kind regards Fernando Last edited by fernando; 9th July 2008 at 02:38 PM. Reason: paragraph alteration |
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That counts for me the same ![]() Regards, Maurice |
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This is just a thought that popped into my head while reading .
The purpose of these forums is to discuss, educate and further our collective knowledge of the subjects we study here . Pricing methods in Swap that could result in a windfall for a Seller from a *naive Buyer* do not seem to be in the spirit of the forums as I see it . ![]() Last edited by Rick; 9th July 2008 at 05:31 PM. Reason: Clarity |
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Rick - you're absolutely right.
Fernando, last thought: I understand and respect your opinion. Please allow me to ask for more: I have very nice and rare sword (18th Cent wootz shamshir. signed, in original silver fittings, double kirk pattern). How much does it cost. i.e. how much should I ask for it? What references do I use? Ebay? Other websites? Auctions? etc... I know that many will say: "shamshir like this will cost $2500 on Ebay", but I also know it'd cost about 10 times more on any decent auction (and the buyer will pay 20% on top of it in commissions). I do not know how much it'd exactly fetch though. So, why one can not ask for offer? Of course I can ask $25000 right away, but if I prefer someone who understands the above math to offer something in the acceptable range, and then work on that "seller/buyer click" which Maurice described so nicely earlier on, and without offending others - should I be able to? and I know the Forum is not an auction, I am using it as an example. |
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This is an good thing respect and don't try to put your will on other people because you don't like the way that they put no price on it . Ben |
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So far it's 11 leaning towards posting and 5 against. I guess there will need to be an executive decision by the Forum staff as to what the future policy will be
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I don't think the Forum staff has to take an decision on this because this could lead to no more swap posting by some members .
It would be a shame if this gonna happen because some special stuff never get to the swap forum again . Ben |
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