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					Originally Posted by spiral
					
				 
				I guess that would depend on the daughters understanding of the facts & their wishes being truthfully fulfilled  & how they wish to deal with Their  grief process for Their  father. 
 
spiral 
			
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 Well of course Spiral, that is fairly obvious, isn't it? That is why i was clear about stating that 
my opinion was based upon 
my own understandings of such things and not a blanket statement that this is the way things 
are for everyone. 

 My statement was directed towards Ron as an alternative way of thinking about the matter, not meant to refute your facts about the material loss or to create a debate on the matter.